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July 13, 2010 / Raffy Pekson II

Why Women Love Jerks!

by Deva, Greater Minneapolis-St. Paul Area

Actually, the real title read, “Why Attractive Women Love Jerks!”

Photo by Gregussen at Flickr.com

Ever wonder why in the world attractive women seem to be attracted to jerks? You can’t deny the fact that jerks, in fact, attract hot women. So how you can learn to attract women like jerks do, but not cross over to “the dark side” and start mistreating, misleading, or lying to women? Become one of the few men who know the answer by reading the article below. It’s your secret to IMMEDIATELY start meeting and attracting women like never before…

“I’m sure what you’re saying is right, but I don’t want to be a jerk or an a**hole to women…”

“I have seen what you’re talking about happen all my life, but I’m a ‘nice guy’ and I want women to like me for me…”

…and…

“This doesn’t make sense…”

For most of my life, I was THE nice guy of nice guys. As a matter of fact, when I first made the decision to learn how to be successful with women, this actually created an OBSTACLE for me.

Let me explain…

Because I believed that “being a nice guy” MUST be the way to success with women, I ACTUALLY COULDN’T EVEN PERCEIVE ANY OTHER WAY.

In other words, I could see a situation where a woman was attracted to a mean, abusive guy and think to myself that either she must be screwed up in the head, or THAT THE GUY MUST BE REALLY NICE TO HER THE REST OF THE TIME.

As you probably know, it’s hard to convince a person to believe something when they already have a belief about the topic. The person that you’re trying to convince just uses whatever you say to convince themselves that they’re actually right… and you’re wrong.

I did the exact same thing.

No matter how much evidence I found to the contrary, I still somehow believed that being a “nice” guy, buying women flowers and gifts, taking them out, and generally letting them be in control of the relationship HAD to be the way to attract them.

Well, after continuing along the same path and getting the same results, I realized something that literally changed EVERYTHING for me.

I realized that JERKS do, in fact, attract hot women.

SELFISH BEHAVIOR, AS UNHEALTHY AS THIS MIGHT SOUND, OFTEN MAKES WOMEN FEEL ATTRACTED TO YOU

Sarcasm, ball busting, playing hard to get, and all kinds of other “illogical” things really do work when it comes to attracting women.

But then I had a dilemma…

I love the idea of being successful with women, but I HATE the idea of mistreating people, being mean to them, lying and misleading, etc.

Deep down, I want to be a good guy.

I decided that there MUST be a way to make this work, and to attract women without being ABUSIVE.

The good news is that THERE IS a way.

But it requires that you put aside your current ideas for just long enough to entertain some new ones.

First, let me say that I believe I’ve found a way to take the things that JERKS do to attract women and use them WITHOUT THE ABUSE. When you learn to do this, you can really have the best of both worlds… you can be nice to women on your own terms, and give them what they REALLY want, and what REALLY attracts them.

So WHY DO WOMEN BECOME ATTRACTED TO JERKS?

The short answer is that they don’t CHOOSE it, it’s something that just HAPPENS.

ATTRACTION ISN’T A CHOICE.

It’s an emotional response to certain things.

Women don’t CHOOSE to feel the emotion called ATTRACTION for jerks any more than YOU choose to feel the emotion called ATTRACTION for young, beautiful, hardbodied women.

Nature has pre-programmed MEN with a mechanism that works like this:

SEE HOT WOMEN —> FEEL ATTRACTION

Well, women have a similar mechanism. But I think that the female version is MORE COMPLEX.

Yes, women do feel attraction for extremely handsome men… but they feel a MUCH STRONGER ATTRACTION for certain PERSONALITY TRAITS and BEHAVIORS than they do for physical looks alone.

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